anxious.damn
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Hello everyone, back on the forum after a few weeks, I finally have the answers I was looking for at the time. So, here is my story.
Met Rio after a few days when I was vacationing alone. I am in my early 20s. Started talking when he helped me get rid of a dude that was hitting on me a little to hard. Got together 2 days after. From the start he specified he wanted a serious relationship; at first I didn't but then I thought "oh hell, why not".
During my stay, he was the perfect gentlemen in my eyes: good heart, intelligent, considerate, funny... Thing went so well I agreed for the long distance relationship. As I was on vacation alone to enjoy some me-time, I didn't spend all day with him, but I was never suspicious of him flirting with other girls, he never hesitated to leave his phone with me, etc.
I started having doubts when I returned to my counrty, and within 3 days I had been over everything I could find on bezness. From this moment on, I was extra cautious about details and surely his behaviour was not reassuring. The man was inconsistent, love bombing one moment and absent the other, I didn't know what to think anymore. That went on for about 2 months...
Yesterday I decided I had enough. I tested him on something very specific and had definite proof for me that he was able to lie to my face. My mind was set on breaking up, so I did one last research and found out he recently added the same girl on insta and facebook, which had never happened in 2 months. I imediately got in touch with her as I told her he was my boyfriend, she told me that the got engaged 2 days ago.
I was prepared and yet I couldn't help but to feel so hurt, and for the girl who he would have tricked into marriage. I sent her every screenshot from the very morning, or from the very day they got engaged, and where he called me my love, said how much he missed me, would do anything to spend the rest of his life with me... The girl and I made our way through the showers of lies he told the both of us, and after a 10min call I blocked him from everywhere.
Protect yourselves, believe in yourself, theres no fire without smoke.
Will do another thread on rat behaviour, what to look for and advices.
Met Rio after a few days when I was vacationing alone. I am in my early 20s. Started talking when he helped me get rid of a dude that was hitting on me a little to hard. Got together 2 days after. From the start he specified he wanted a serious relationship; at first I didn't but then I thought "oh hell, why not".
During my stay, he was the perfect gentlemen in my eyes: good heart, intelligent, considerate, funny... Thing went so well I agreed for the long distance relationship. As I was on vacation alone to enjoy some me-time, I didn't spend all day with him, but I was never suspicious of him flirting with other girls, he never hesitated to leave his phone with me, etc.
I started having doubts when I returned to my counrty, and within 3 days I had been over everything I could find on bezness. From this moment on, I was extra cautious about details and surely his behaviour was not reassuring. The man was inconsistent, love bombing one moment and absent the other, I didn't know what to think anymore. That went on for about 2 months...
Yesterday I decided I had enough. I tested him on something very specific and had definite proof for me that he was able to lie to my face. My mind was set on breaking up, so I did one last research and found out he recently added the same girl on insta and facebook, which had never happened in 2 months. I imediately got in touch with her as I told her he was my boyfriend, she told me that the got engaged 2 days ago.
I was prepared and yet I couldn't help but to feel so hurt, and for the girl who he would have tricked into marriage. I sent her every screenshot from the very morning, or from the very day they got engaged, and where he called me my love, said how much he missed me, would do anything to spend the rest of his life with me... The girl and I made our way through the showers of lies he told the both of us, and after a 10min call I blocked him from everywhere.
Protect yourselves, believe in yourself, theres no fire without smoke.
Will do another thread on rat behaviour, what to look for and advices.
